Since Jesus went through everything you’re going through and more, learn to think like him. Think of your sufferings as a weaning from that old sinful habit of always expecting to get your own way. Then you’ll be able to live out your days free to pursue what God wants instead of being tyrannized by what you want.
1Peter 4:1-2
I used to be a major complainer. I hated high school, then I hated my job as an ER Tech then an OR Tech, then I hated PT school. I complained about people in my classes, people in my sorority/campus organizations, people I worked with. No one understood what I was going through, and no one had it as bad as me.
I truly believe my attitude has improved since I have begun a closer walk with Jesus. I can’t pinpoint any other changes in my life except that I am now doing what I feel He is leading me to do. I am also doing it because He wants me to. It makes a huge difference to perform a task because you care about the one who asked you to do it. I loved the part of the reading where the author pointed out specific mom tasks that Jesus has taken care of with no complaints. He does understand and he has had it as bad as me. But Jesus was doing what His Father asked Him to do. Jesus has been through everything we have and much more. His love for God and obedience to God allowed Him to fulfill prophecy and be a sacrifice for us all. How else could we explain voluntarily being beaten and crucified?
Next time you are ill from standing in line too long (especially here at Christmas time), think of who you are buying the gift for. Think of how your attitude could help the person in line next to you. Think of how God has commissioned you to be His light. People who don’t know Christ don’t understand a positive attitude in a negative situation. You may not even be able to explain it…just be an example. That’s a start.
At home your husband will appreciate a positive attitude and hopefully catch on as well. You can both be an example of how to deal with tough times, even when money is tight and bills are due or the baby has been crying for an hour straight. Share your worries with each other so you can present a unified and positive front to your kids. And quit complaining, instead find God’s purpose in everything you do.
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Heather, thank you once again another meangingul and thoughtful post. I love the suggestion about thinking of who you are buying the gift for while you're standing in line. It's easy to display a negative attitude, especially durinng the hectic holiday season. I will think of you while I'm standing in line today!
ReplyDeleteAlso, I always think about how important it is to lead by example, especially to lead with a positive attitude.It is so easy to complain and get wrapped up in others complaints. We need to challenge ourselves, as mothers and wives, to have a positive attitude in all we do - our husband, our children, and our Lord will appreciate it!