Hatred stirs up dissension, but love covers all wrongs. Proverbs 10:12
When I was growing up, I remember my grandmother (who is also my godmother) saying that I should not use the word "hate." Knowing that my grandmother was wise and of course, out of respect, I refrained from using the word hate.
What does the word hate really mean? According to our friends at dictionary.com, hate is to dislike intensely or passionately. Such feeling must stem from Satan as our Lord, God, does not encourage such feeling instead He teaches us to love our enemies. Think about all the bad in this world from suicide bombers to kids who bully in school - and then imagine that this hate was actually covered in love... think of the lives that would be saved and the hearts that would be healed. Teach your children this love; teach your children to refrain from hatred. I know that when we get to heaven that any and all hate will be absent but it would be nice to foster love on earth. We can teach this love one person at a time, starting by being an example for our children and our families.
In your personal, professional, and family interactions do you ever come across someone who just drives you nuts?! I know that I do... and how do you react to these people and situations?Well, I know that I could stand some improvement in this area... although I may not say that I hate someone, I know that I may strongly dislike them. Instead of focusing so much negative energy around these interactions, I realize that I need to pray for these people and for the strength to show them love. Perhaps you will try the same - this week pray for those who may aggravate you. Also, try to think of the good qualities that this person (or people) possess and focus on those qualities.
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Thanks, Jennifer, for tackling such a tough issue. My hatred used to peak each morning and afternoon on my way home from school. I would get so angry at someone who cut me off or was driving 40 in the fast lane. I no longer make that drive, but I do still find people who stir up hatred in my heart when I am driving. I have tried the author’s suggestion of remembering that they are God’s children and it really works. I remind myself that they are created in God’s image just like me...even if they look nothing like me. It really puts things in perspective. I sometimes pray that the person will slow down and stay safe. I think my blood pressure has recovered from my years driving to UAB, and I am now really working on seeing God’s fingerprint on everyone I come into contact with.
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